by dr. lam » Thu Sep 10, 2009 12:54 pm
there are several important things you should know:
1. first, i cannot make a judgment by one single photograph without seeing you in person and truly evaluating the scar. oftentimes, a scar in a photograph can look better or worse than it really is without an in-person consultation.
2. second, there is oftentimes a legacy of negativity left in your heart that makes things very difficult for you to bear because a) you can't forgive yourself for having picked that surgeon, and usually less so but still important b) you can't forgive the surgeon for having done something that in your opinion is less than ideal. whenever i do corrective work, i am faced with a poor previous relationship that clouds my ability to help someone in very subtle but profound ways. in other words, whatever i do for you you will always "see a scar" because first a scar revision always entails changing one line that is more visibly hopefully for a line that is less visible and b) your heart is still living with regret. that must be cleaned before i can work on something.
3. third, fortunately, your scar looks as if it falls into a natural nasolabial crease but i understand that it is still imperfect. i don't know to what extent it will be improved given what i see.
4. fourth, scar revision is a major thing. it takes a long time for it to look good again with a lot of postoperative follow up with laser, dermabrasion, and possible 5-FU injections (scar reducer) to make sure the scar looks good. meaning two things to consider: a. you will have a protracted time upwards of a year or more where the scar will most likely not look better but could and will look substantially worse., b. as said, there is a lot of after care to make a scar look good that may be needed.
5. fifth, there are no guarantees in life. anytime you rework a previous scar, it could look better, same, or even worse. you have to understand all risks benefits to decide. looking at a scar in person can help but my suggestion is to find someone local if you are not in Dallas to help you.
in summary, clean your heart and soul about your past. you might find you don't want a scar revision after all. when the emotional scar is gone and the legacy effaced, you might not need to undertake something that will literally reopen old wounds. hope that helps as a start.
best,
sml
Samuel M. Lam, M.D., F.A.C.S.
Diplomate, American Board of Facial Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery
Diplomate, American Board of Otolaryngology Head & Neck Surgery
Diplomate, American Board of Hair Restoration Surgery